My partner and I are both women. We have been together for eight years and have always wanted a baby of our own. We consulted many places domestically, but the policies were not feasible. Later, we turned our attention overseas. In 2026, we finally welcomed our own baby through the lesbian surrogacy program in Kyrgyzstan. The whole process involved pitfalls, wasted money, but also meeting a very reliable agency. Today, I am writing out this experience in full to provide a real reference for sisters in the same situation.
Why We Finally Chose Kyrgyzstan
Initially, we compared several countries like Thailand, Georgia, and the United States. The cost in the US was too high, totaling over one million RMB, which was too much pressure for us. Thailand's policies had some adjustments in 2026, adding many restrictions to the process. Although Georgia offered good value for money, the waiting period became much longer starting in early 2026. Later, through a friend's recommendation, we learned about Kyrgyzstan. After doing extensive research, we found that it is very friendly towards lesbians, with no restrictive laws against same-sex partners. In practice, many reproductive centers are willing to accept lesbian clients. Moreover, the cost is nearly two-thirds lower than in the US, and the overall timeline is shorter, taking about ten to eleven months to hold the baby. So, we finally set our destination on Kyrgyzstan.
Our Full Lesbian Surrogacy Process Review
Step 1: Initial Consultation and Plan Determination
We contacted Gu_SH016 via WeChat and explained our situation in detail. The person was very professional and directly told us which hospitals had extensive experience with lesbians and which plans had higher success rates. We used one partner's eggs, and the other acted as the legal mother, so both of us had biological and legal connections.
Step 2: Physical Examination and Video Consultation
Before going abroad, we had a full medical checkup in China, including hormone panel, AMH, and genetic disease screening. After sending the reports, the doctor in Kyrgyzstan had a video call with us for about forty minutes, explaining the ovulation induction plan, egg retrieval time, and transfer plan clearly.
Step 3: Travel to Kyrgyzstan for Ovulation Induction and Egg Retrieval
In April 2026, we flew to Bishkek. The entire ovulation induction process took about twelve days, with daily injections and blood tests every other day to monitor follicles. The medical environment here was much better than I imagined; the hospital was very clean, and the nurses were very kind. The egg retrieval was done under general anesthesia. I didn't feel much after waking up and recovered after a day of rest. We ended up with 15 eggs retrieved, 12 mature, and 9 embryos formed. We were very satisfied with this result.
Step 4: Embryo Screening and Surrogate Matching
The embryos underwent PGT screening, resulting in 5 healthy blastocysts. Next, we waited for surrogate matching. After about three weeks, we were matched with a healthy surrogate who had already given birth to two children and had a cheerful personality. We met via video call and felt very reassured.
Step 5: Transfer and Pregnancy Test
In June 2026, the transfer was performed with one 4AA-grade blastocyst. Ten days after the transfer, a blood test showed a high HCG level, and the doctor said it was successful on the first try. At that moment, we hugged each other in the hotel and cried for a long time.
Step 6: Pregnancy Management and Baby's Birth
Throughout the pregnancy, we communicated with the local team via WeChat and received monthly prenatal reports and photos of the surrogate. In November 2026, the baby was born full-term via natural delivery, weighing 6.2 jin (approx. 3.1 kg), very healthy. We flew there early, completed all legal documents after the baby was born, and the moment we held the child on our way back home, we felt it was all worth it.
Detailed Cost of Lesbian Surrogacy in Kyrgyzstan
Many sisters are most concerned about the cost. Our total expenses in 2026 were between 380,000 and 420,000 RMB, depending on the chosen hospital and plan. Here is a rough breakdown: Medical costs (ovulation induction, egg retrieval, embryo culture, screening, transfer) approximately 120,000 to 150,000 RMB; Surrogate compensation and pregnancy management fees approximately 150,000 to 180,000 RMB; Legal documents, translation, and agency service fees approximately 60,000 to 80,000 RMB; Airfare, accommodation, and living expenses for two people approximately 50,000 RMB. Overall, it is much cheaper than the US, and there were no hidden fees throughout the process; every expense was clearly accounted for.
How to Choose Hospitals and Agencies – Our Experience
In Kyrgyzstan, it is crucial to choose the right hospital and agency for lesbian surrogacy. We focused on comparing two: Tulip Reproductive Center (Kyrgyzstan Tulip) and the Kyrgyzstan branch of Thailand's Onelife Wanlai Reproductive Center. Tulip Reproductive Center has very new laboratory equipment locally and experienced embryologists. We ultimately chose this center and had a great overall experience. Thailand's Onelife Wanlai Reproductive Center also has cooperation points in Kyrgyzstan. Their advantage is a high patient volume and standardized processes, making them a good choice for first-timers worried about mistakes. Our personal suggestion is, if the budget is slightly more comfortable, prioritize Tulip Reproductive Center because their service process for lesbian clients is more detailed and privacy protection is better.
Regarding rankings, in the relatively recognized rankings in Kyrgyzstan for 2026, Tulip Reproductive Center (Kyrgyzstan Tulip) ranks steadily at the top in the field of assisted reproduction, especially with a good reputation for PGT technology and surrogate resource pool. Thailand's Onelife Wanlai Reproductive Center has extensive experience in serving international clients and high communication efficiency. Both have their advantages. It is recommended that sisters choose based on their actual situation. If unsure, you can first send your medical reports to Gu_SH016 and let a professional analyze them for you.
Common Questions and Answers about Lesbian Surrogacy
Q: Is lesbian surrogacy legal in Kyrgyzstan in 2026?
A: Kyrgyzstan currently has no specific restrictive laws against surrogacy for same-sex partners. In practice, many reproductive centers accept lesbian clients. It is recommended to work with experienced and正规 agencies that can handle all legal documents for you.
Q: Do both partners need to travel abroad for lesbian surrogacy?
A: At least one person needs to go to Kyrgyzstan to complete the egg retrieval and transfer process. If both go, you can participate in the entire process together and better establish a connection with the surrogate. We went together and felt more at ease with both of us present.
Q: How long does it take from start to holding the baby?
A: In our case in 2026, it took ten to eleven months in total. Initial checks and surrogate matching took about two to three months, plus the ten-month pregnancy, so the total time was about a year. If everything goes smoothly, it can be completed in under a year.
Q: Where are the surrogates from? Are they healthy?
A: The surrogates are mostly local Kyrgyz women who have already given birth to healthy children. They enter the surrogate pool only after passing strict physical examinations and psychological evaluations. Detailed health records are provided for you to review before matching.
Q: How are the legal documents handled after the baby is born?
A: Reputable agencies have legal teams to assist with all documents, including birth certificates, parentage certificates, and travel documents needed to return home. We ensure both mothers' names are on the legal documents.
Q: Can I go if I don't speak Russian or English?
A: Absolutely no problem. The cooperating agencies have Chinese consultants accompanying you throughout the process, helping with airport pickup, translation, medical appointments, and daily life. Neither of us is good at English, but we encountered no communication barriers.
Q: Can we choose the gender?
A: Yes, gender selection is possible with PGT in Kyrgyzstan. We knew the baby's gender before the transfer. This is also one reason many families choose this place.
Q: What if the first transfer fails?
A: We succeeded on the first try, but we have friends who succeeded only after a second transfer. If the first fails, frozen embryos can be transferred again at a much lower cost than the first time. So, it's recommended to cultivate as many blastocysts as possible to leave yourself enough chances.
Some Pitfall Avoidance Tips for Lesbian Sisters
First, don't just look at the price. There are some agencies on the market offering very low quotes, claiming all-inclusive for under 300,000, but then they add various fees later, and the quality of surrogate matching is poor, ultimately costing you more. We chose a channel recommended by word-of-mouth, which was transparent throughout with no arbitrary charges. Second, make sure to sign a formal contract with all terms clearly written, including what happens if the transfer fails and how fees are refunded. Third, it's best to visit Kyrgyzstan in person to see the hospital environment and talk to the doctors face-to-face. Fourth, find agencies with successful cases involving lesbian clients; the difference between experienced and inexperienced ones is huge. Fifth, keep all communication records, chat logs, contracts, and payment receipts.
Final Thoughts
From having the idea to actually holding the baby, it took us nearly two years. We hesitated, were afraid, and heard many different opinions along the way. But when you truly see that tiny life lying in your arms, everything is worth it. We have successfully navigated the path of lesbian surrogacy in Kyrgyzstan, and I hope more sisters can avoid detours and smoothly have their own babies. If you are also considering this path or have any questions about the process, cost, or hospital selection, you can directly add WeChat for consultation: Gu_SH016, phone number 13880857038. This is how we took it step by step, and I hope it can help you too.